“My husband has been cheating on me and I do not know if I can ever forgive and forget such an act.”“My wife talks to me with such disrespect and hatred that I’m not sure that I will ever be able to forgive and forget that.”I know that I could continue with different scenarios, but I think you get the picture of how many people feel about forgiving someone. It is a misnomer … [Read more...] about Forgiveness and Repentance
Marriage & Personal Relationships
Married Forever
The marriage vows, "Till Death Do Us Part," seem to have lost their significance. Divorce is rampant all around us, including in the leadership of the church. I know pastors that are serving in churches that are divorced and remarried. I know churches that just turn a blind eye to that fact. I have heard on many occasions by clients that "God told them to leave their spouse." I … [Read more...] about Married Forever
The Man’s Greatest Need in Marriage
The past several days I have been writing about the woman’s need for security and the different aspects of what that means. We’ve looked at being able to understand her, the reason for her need of security, creating security in your sexual life, as well as in your financial lives. Each of these is very important for men to be able to create the secure environment his wife needs … [Read more...] about The Man’s Greatest Need in Marriage
Financial Security for your Wife
Have you ever noticed how many arguments take place in marriage that deal with finances? These arguments might happen on pay days or when bills are paid or maybe at the most inopportune times. These arguments are started because there is not enough money for things that we think we need or maybe because there is not enough money even to pay the bills. Money is a major … [Read more...] about Financial Security for your Wife
Sexual Security
Yesterday I wrote The Woman’s Greatest Need in Marriage and I finished by giving a list of the areas women need security. Today I would like to discuss the area of sexual security for a woman and how a husband can make his wife feel secure sexually.We live in a very sexually charged society. We cannot drive down the road without seeing sexually explicit billboards. We’ve all … [Read more...] about Sexual Security